The Parent I Want To Be

Parenting classes in Spanish · Calgary

The kind and firm leader your child is looking for

Swinging from too strict to too permissive in 24 hours? There’s another way.

Positive Discipline gives you the balance: clear limits, with warmth. It helps you resolve conflicts with respect, strengthen your bond with your children and prepare them for life.

Sign up for the 2 sessions

No commitment to continue · Small groups

I’m taking home the idea of being more present and living each moment with more intention, instead of talking to my kids on autopilot.”
Participating mom
Marcela Pinzón, Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator

First 2 sessions at no cost

Why I’m here

Google reviews · Translated from Spanish

What parents say after taking the workshop

5.0★★★★★ View on Google
  • Marcela S.

    ★★★★★ Google

    Taking this course has been a really good experience. I learned to be more present in the moments with my daughter and to communicate with more awareness and empathy. I understood the importance of truly listening, not just to the words but also to the emotions behind them. Hearing the other participants in the different activities also confirmed that I’m not alone in this, and that many other parents go through the same situations. It helped me feel supported in this process.

    Marcela’s reply

    Hi Marcela, thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so glad it helped you connect more with your daughter. Children give their best when they feel seen and heard, just like we do in our relationships with other adults.

  • Pamela M.

    ★★★★★ Google

    I really enjoyed the class. Connecting with other moms and knowing we all face similar challenges, sharing experiences and connecting, is so important. I found the class really good and engaging.

    Marcela’s reply

    Hi Pam, I’m so glad you felt connected and learned from the other moms’ experiences! Thank you for having the courage to share; it was so valuable.

  • Liceo Infantil Retoñitos

    ★★★★★ Google

    Marcela is running a 6-session workshop with our school staff. After analyzing situations together, we realized that giving orders isn’t always necessary: by asking questions we can also get what we want, while teaching children to make their own decisions and encouraging them to be independent. We really liked the phrases for being firm and kind at the same time, and all the instructions were very clear.

    Marcela’s reply

    Hi, I’m so glad you decided to enjoy your children more. As you mentioned, by analyzing real situations together and sharing experiences, we discover other ways of relating to them, leading with firmness and kindness at the same time. Each session leaves you with something concrete to practice during the week. Thank you for being part of this lovely group!

  • Verónica and Fabián

    ★★★★★ Google

    The Positive Discipline workshop led by Marcela is a transformative experience: educational, interactive and full of hands-on activities and role-plays that make it engaging and relatable. More than theory, it gives you real tools you can use every day, helping you build a more positive, empathetic and less authoritarian approach to parenting. It also offers an enriching perspective that opens up new ways of communicating with our children. Highly recommended!

    Marcela’s reply

    Thank you, Verónica and Fabián. The activities are exactly what spark reflection and help the learning really sink in. Theory alone, without practical tools, makes change hard.

  • John Fredy C.

    ★★★★★ Google

    Highly recommended, excellent training!

    Marcela’s reply

    Thank you, John Fredy. I truly enjoyed having you in the workshop and hearing your contributions and reflections.

  • Gloria N.

    ★★★★★ Google

    What stayed with me most was the activity about asking instead of giving orders. I repeat things to my daughters so often that I feel it goes in one ear and out the other, and I think this strategy will be really useful. I’m leaving excited to start applying what I learned. Thank you, Marcela!

    Marcela’s reply

    Thank you, Gloria! I’m so glad you enjoyed the activity.

  • María D.

    ★★★★★ Google

    Clear and very dynamic. Thank you for helping me be better!

    Marcela’s reply

    Thank you, María. I love knowing you feel it will help you be better. You’ll be the kind and firm leader your child needs!

  • Eliana P.

    ★★★★★ Google

    The gathering was amazing. Being able to interact with other moms and hear different points of view is wonderful. Thank you for creating this space.

    Marcela’s reply

    Eliana, I’m so glad it was so enriching to connect with the other moms. Hearing their experiences not only makes us feel supported, it also helps us see our own challenges more clearly and reach those “aha” moments that stay with us, beyond the theory.

  • Alba de S.

    ★★★★★ Google

    Great tools for raising children!

    Marcela’s reply

    Thank you, Alba. Without a doubt, every day I see how well they work with my daughters.

  • David P.

    ★★★★★ Google

    The workshop helps you put yourself in your child’s shoes and understand the different options we have as parents to help our children chart their own course.

    Marcela’s reply

    Agreed: pausing to put ourselves in our children’s shoes really helps us figure out what to do, or how we could have done it better.

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How it works

Try it first. Decide later.

Join two introductory sessions at no cost. If you enjoy the experience, you continue with the next four. If not, that’s okay.

  1. 01

    Sign up

    It takes a minute. Tell me which day works best for you, and I’ll write to you once start dates are set.

    Thursday 5:30 – 7:00 pm or Friday 4:30 – 6:00 pm

    For adults (moms, dads, grandparents, aunts and uncles) with children ages 3 to 8, and also for parents-to-be and parents of babies up to 2 years old.

  2. 02

    Experience 2 sessions at no cost

    In person at Seton Library, in a small group of up to 5 adults, two weeks in a row. Get directions

  3. 03

    If you like it, keep going

    The remaining 4 sessions, online or in person, whichever suits you best.

    $180 per person · $270 per couple

    15% of your investment is donated to the PASO Foundation. The workshop is at no cost for foundations: sign up

The session: Experiencing + questioning + the moments when it all makes sense + closing with new learnings.
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Small groups so everyone can take part.

The workshop · 6 sessions

Six sessions, six skills for everyday life

Enjoy your child more with practical ideas to respond with intention instead of reacting on impulse, alongside other parents who are going through the same thing you are.

  1. 01 Set limits with firmness and love
  2. 02 Connect before you correct
  3. 03 How your personality shapes your parenting
  4. 04 Why won’t my child behave?
  5. 05 No more yelling, rewards, punishments or repeating yourself a thousand times
  6. 06 Encourage instead of labeling or praising

The Positive Discipline workshop was developed by Jane Nelsen and Lynn Lott in the 1990s, based on the principles of the psychology of Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs, who held that we all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

Why I’m here

It’s not about being a perfect mom, but about learning and growing alongside our children

Eleven years ago, while I was pregnant with my first daughter, my mom gave me the book Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline, by Dr. Becky A. Bailey, and I realized that love alone wasn’t enough: I needed tools so I wouldn’t repeat the patterns I grew up with, and so I could become the mom I wanted to be.

I read more and more books as new challenges came up with my two daughters. In 2024 I took a Positive Discipline workshop, put it into practice with them and found my true passion: sharing what I learned so that, together, we can build a better world for our children. That’s why I became a Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator.

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Ever since I read Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline by Dr. Becky A. Bailey 11 years ago, while I was pregnant with my first daughter, I became aware of many beliefs I needed to change to become the mom I wanted to be, and I grew very interested in parenting strategies. Children may bring many blessings, but they certainly don’t come with an instruction manual, and love alone wasn’t enough; I needed tools to avoid repeating the patterns I grew up with. That book sparked my passion for learning about parenting, and I began putting ideas from Daniel J. Siegel and Dr. Becky A. Bailey into practice as I faced the challenges of raising my two daughters.

In 2024, looking for new tools, I took a Positive Discipline workshop and, after putting it into practice with my daughters, I realized that my true passion is teaching what I’ve learned so that, together, we can build a better world for our children. So I became certified as a Positive Discipline Parent Educator.

Twenty years from now, when our child knocks on the door, I want us both to see the adult we dreamed of, and to know that every challenge along the way was a chance to prepare them for life.

Twenty years from now, when our child knocks on the door, I want us both to see the adult we dreamed of.

Marcela Pinzón

Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educator

Member of the Positive Discipline Association

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My favorite parenting books and what they taught me

I kept reading as new challenges came up, until the noise of so much advice on social media led me to look for the Positive Discipline course. I loved it so much that I decided to get certified.

Thank you to the authors of these books for such wonderful advice: they changed my life, and today they help me guide other parents. Every day, every situation, every mistake is a chance to become a better mom.

  • Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline Dr. Becky A. BaileyIt gave me tools to help my daughter recognize, express and manage her emotions.
  • Entre el amor y los límites Jorge EslavaWithout firm limits, we raise an emperor of the galaxy.
  • If I Have to Tell You One More Time Amy McCreadyIt taught me concrete strategies that are quick to put into practice.
  • Positive Discipline Jane NelsenKind and firm at the same time: yes, it’s possible.
  • The Whole-Brain Child Siegel & BrysonEvery experience is a chance to shape their prefrontal cortex.
  • No-Drama Discipline Siegel & BrysonThe key is to connect before you correct.
  • The Temperament God Gave You Art & Laraine BennettThe four of us see the world through different lenses.
  • Good Inside Dr. Becky KennedyIt taught me to put myself in my children’s shoes, with examples from my own life.
  • The Yes Brain Siegel & BrysonHelp children develop an open, flexible and resilient mind, so they can face challenges with curiosity and confidence.
  • The Power of Showing Up Siegel & BrysonIt builds secure attachment by helping them feel safe, seen, soothed and secure.
  • Brainstorm Daniel J. SiegelWe need to understand the teenage brain to support them through this stage.

Giving back

Because no family should have to raise children alone

I facilitate the workshop at no cost for nonprofit organizations that support parents.

Plus, 15% of your investment is donated to the PASO Foundation.

Register your organization

Virtual sessions at no cost for nonprofit organizations that support parents, on Tuesdays from 8:00 to 9:30 pm (Calgary time). Leave your details and I’ll get in touch to coordinate.

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6 virtual sessions with the PASO Foundation that filled my heart with hope, May 2024.
Virtual workshop session with families from the PASO Foundation Another virtual workshop session with the PASO Foundation, facilitated by Marcela
“I always thought my kids were the ones who had to change, but now I see that I’m the one who needs to change.”
John Fredy, a dad who took the workshop with the PASO Foundation, 2024
Thank you, PASO Foundation parentsThank you to the PASO Foundation for opening its doors to me, and to life for giving me the chance to walk alongside other families.See moreSee less

Thank you to the PASO Foundation for opening its doors to me, and to life for giving me the chance to walk alongside other families. And above all, thank you to every mom and dad who came to the sessions sincerely wanting to do a little better every day.

We wrapped up six intense sessions full of shared learning and deep reflection. I’m deeply grateful for the courage of this hardworking community to own their mistakes, share their experiences and commit to change. Their resolve convinces me even more of this workshop’s power to transform our society through the adults of the future: our children.

This workshop brings together two of my passions: creating learning experiences and supporting social change through parenting.

“Thank you to all the parents for your spontaneous and valuable participation in this Positive Discipline Workshop. Your commitment and enthusiasm inspire us to keep building a better society together.”

Eduardo, community leader at the PASO Foundation, Neiva

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My commitment

I lead with calm. I feel and connect with them. I grow with them.

It’s my commitment as a mom to my daughters, and the one every mom and dad signs at the end of the six sessions.

I promise to lead with firmness and kindness, knowing that every moment is a chance to connect and to help my child build the skills they need for life.

I promise to learn emotional regulation alongside my child: to choose to stay calm, kind and present with their feelings, and to show them that it’s safe to feel.

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I want to be the parent who stays calm and grounded in the face of my child’s big emotions — who chooses to tolerate the discomfort of those feelings and to accompany my child with a calm and steady presence, showing them that emotions are not dangerous or bad, and that it’s safe to feel them fully.

I want to be the parent who understands that emotional regulation is not something I must master before parenting, but something I can learn alongside my child — seeing every emotional storm as an invitation to grow together.

I want my child to become someone who faces life with courage and resilience, who embraces emotions as part of their preparation for the future, and learns to navigate them with confidence and trust in themselves.

And I know that starts with me. I choose to lead with firmness and kindness, knowing this is not about being perfect, but about showing up with presence, connection, and the willingness to grow.

I want to try the 2 sessions

Frequently asked questions

What parents often ask me

Can’t find your answer? Leave me a message and I’ll get back to you personally.

Do I have to continue with the 4 sessions?

No. The 2 introductory sessions are your chance to try it out. If you like them, you continue. If not, that’s okay.

Can I come without my partner?

Yes. Moms, dads, grandparents, aunts and uncles all come. If you come as a couple, the 4 sessions have a couple’s price.

And even if your partner isn’t on the same page or doesn’t want to join, once you start the change, they’ll see the results and feel encouraged to try. Change starts with you.

What if I can’t attend the 4 sessions in person?

The remaining 4 sessions can be online or in person. Just tell me which days work best for you.

Do I have to speak or act in front of the group?

Not at all. We learn by role-playing as the parent or the child, but also by watching.

What ages is it for?

For adults with children ages 3 to 8, and also for parents-to-be and parents of babies up to 2 years old.

Are the sessions in Spanish?

Yes. The workshop is taught in Spanish and designed for Spanish-speaking families in Calgary.

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Leave me a message and I’ll get back to you personally, by WhatsApp or email.

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Register your interest

You took the first step! If you’re here, it’s because you’re already a good mom or dad, and you know that every day is a chance to do better, to learn from every moment with our children and to parent with purpose.

I’m so glad you’re ready to enjoy your child more, connect with other moms and learn simple strategies.

No cost and no commitment to continue. I’ll confirm the dates by email or WhatsApp.

Would you rather talk first? Email me at theparentiwanttobe@gmail.com